The New “Blended Worship”

When I was looking for a full-time worship leading gig 10 years ago I told myself I would only work in a church that had always been “contemporary.” I did not want to handle the craziness of a church in transition from “traditional” (meaning organ, choir, hymns) to “contemporary” (meaning drums & guitars, new worship choruses or hymns arranged for band.) I avoided a church with two types of services where there was always a tension between the two. I also avoided the “blended” service with both organ/choir and band, where half the people were happy half the time

Riverwood was the perfect fit. Contemporary since the beginning, wide age range but everyone, young and old, knew what the music was like and chose to make this their church home, either because of the music or in spite of the music. Some came for the preaching and tolerated the music. Others liked the music more than the preaching. Still others actually liked both. And we all got along.

Just when I thought I avoided the worship wars of the 70’s and 80’s when “Jesus music” was rising, now I’m wondering if that change is happening again. “Contemporary” has always been a moving target. As styles change in culture so does contemporary music in church. A song that was contemporary 20 years ago is almost traditional now. A style that was cutting edge 10 years ago is now “retro.” While some churches are still “traditional traditional” (or TT) with hymns, organs & choirs attended by mostly seniors, more are what I call  “traditional contemporary” (TC) with newer songs played by 40+ year-old players/singers (like me!) appealing to a broader age range. Then there’s the “new contemporary,” (NC) with very edgy songs played by 20-somethings for other 20-30-somethings.

So now if you have a church of seniors & a few younger, do “TT.” If you want primarily 20-30’s, do “NC.” For the broader age range it seems you must have “TC.” Many churches solve this by offering several styles in different venues…an 8:30 TT, 10:00 TC and Saturday/Sunday night NC services. The congregation ends up segregated by style. Seems exactly where we were 20-30 years ago!

Here’s the question: is this TC style the new “blended” where half the people are happy half the time? Here’s why I ask…

I’ve always tried my best to pick songs with singable melodies, not-too-wide range and good theology. Many are heard on the radio so people who listen to Moody radio, The Fish or K-Love will be familiar with them. My goal is to pick songs that engage the hearts of the people and allow them to express the truths of the song to God. I also try to bridge the range of teen to senior citizen who attend the same service. But lately I hear comments from people about how they observe many people at my church not singing to the music that we’re doing. They should be participating by singing but they don’t. The seniors don’t seem to like the newer songs. The teens-20’s do. This Sunday we sang “Come Thou Fount Of Every Blessing.” My pastor & I were talking today about how, whenever we do a hymn arrangement, people seem to sing out more. Is it because of familiarity? Because the older members engage more? Or are hymns still the language of the vast majority of church-goers, young and old?

Anyway, I’d like your thoughts. I’m not looking for a pat on the back & a “You’re doing great, Bill.” This isn’t fishing for affirmation. I’d genuinely like to hear your thoughts on the ever-changing landscape of worship music.

  • What type of music helps you engage in worship?
  • Is inter-generational worship valuable with a mix of styles?
  • Or do you prefer your style with your own generation?
  • Do you worship to newer songs? Give me your favorite.
  • Is traditional contemporary the new blended, with all the pros/cons that go with it?

Thanks for helping me process all this.

Talk to me…

Bill

If I were president…

If I were president I’d…

Do you ever daydream about what you’d do if you had the influence of the U.S. president? The other day I thought about how many sad families there are out there, dads drinking and abusive toward their kids & wives, kids wanting love but getting beat & neglected, wives crying for love. I see how many families are affected by alcohol & other “substances.” If I were president I’d begin speaking out about this. Something like…

I want to talk to you husbands and fathers out there. As I travel around this country I see so many great families led by hard-working men who love their wife and children. You spend time together, teaching good strong values to your children. However I also see the ravages of alcohol and substance abuse as well. Do you men realize what an influence you are in your family…for good or for bad? How your wife looks to you for protection, love, companionship? How your children look to you for love, their sense of value? I cannot understand how some guys can allow an ‘outsider’ to come in a wreck something that should be the foundation of our society…the family. The outsider? Alcohol that ruins your judgment. Drugs that remove your filter for what’s right and wrong. Instead of coming home with a kind word you come with cursing. Instead of a hug you come with a fist. Instead of making home safe, you make it a place of fear. Instead of protector, you’re the destroyer.

Guys it’s time to say “no” to this scourge of our land. It’s time to say “no” to the alcohol that ruins your family. It’s time to say “no” to the drugs that consume you the very life that should be devoted to those who love you. Forced prohibition was tried and failed. Millions of dollars are spent on drug interdiction. There will always be those who prey upon the weak. But it’s time the men of this country come to their senses and say “That’s enough!! I will not allow this ‘outsider’ to ruin my life and my family’s life any more!”

Come on men. Stop being an idiot! (Can a president say that?) Stand up and be the man you’re destined to be…the leader in your family, the husband you vowed to be, the protector of your children. Let’s begin to heal the cracks in the foundation of our country…the family.

Or something like that..

The curse of busy-ness

“Come away with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.”
Mark 6:30

How often I need to hear these words of Jesus. In a culture, especially a Christian culture that seems to thrive on the “I’m busy for Jesus” mentality, we need to be reminded that there is such a thing as too busy for Jesus. Two things I must remember:

1) My worth is not in what I do or how busy I am. I’ve gone through phases in life where I would show off my over-crowded date book like it’s a prize. I would perceive busy-ness as importance. “Look how many things depend on me doing them.” Nowadays (at least most of the time) I try to remember that my worth is not in what I do or how busy I am, but in who I am in Christ. I have value because He says so. I have value to God and others as I allow Him to abide in me and I in Him.

2) Speaking of abiding, if I get too busy it becomes easier to crowd out my time with Jesus. “I have too much to do…Jesus give me strength to do it all.” Like He really thinks the doing is more important than the being. This is not the abundant life He desires for me. The abundant life comes from being with Jesus, allowing Him to live through me, surrendering myself each day to Him. This takes a calm and submissive spirit that is denied in the frenzy.

“To allow one’s self to…surrender to too many demands, to commit to too many projects, to want to help everyone in everything, is to succumb to violence. Frenzy destroys our inner capacity for peace. It destroys the fruitfulness of our work because it kills the root of inner wisdom which makes work fruitful.”
Thomas Merton